Big Life Decisions This Way Or That



I recently had a young woman contact me for a BQH session. Her reason for wanting to come see me was a bit different to the reasons people usually book a session with me. She was not looking for healing, clearing, or a deeper sense of connection. She was not wanting to meet with guides, remove blocks, or uncover her life purpose, instead she had a very specific question regarding an important life decision and whether she should embrace it, or not. I’m pretty sure this was the first time I worked with someone who ultimately just wanted a yes or no answer to a question.

 She had explored the decision as thoroughly as she could at a conscious level, examining all the pros and cons, hopes and fears, and was left feeling completely unsure as to her best path forward. This was a decision that there was no going back from, no changing her mind. Whatever choice she made she would have to live with the consequences for the rest of her life.

She wanted to make sure this decision was internally driven and not based on social influences, or any other external pressure. She wanted to check in with her deeper self, her heart, as well as unconscious aspects to establish which path would be best aligned with her soul and purpose for this lifetime.

She had written up a list of important questions relating to the decision that she hoped to have answered.

At the start of the session she was initially shown some scenes that depicted her fears around embracing this aspect of life. Some of the pitfalls were ones she had not even consciously considered. There was a risk of her taking on more than her fair share of responsibility which could lead to many negative outcomes. Without a sense of balance and equity she could find herself depleted and unable to meet even basic demands.

But as the session continued to unfold there was a distinct shift in the content. The ensuing scenes flowed into the beautiful elements of embracing this choice, and examples of how she could navigate this path in ways that were healthy and equitable for all involved. By this point it was clear that while embracing this choice would undoubtedly have its challenges, if she was willing to let go of overreaching control, and share the responsibility with others, then there was much joy and love to be found on that path.

There was time to go through her questions as well. Some had already been answered organically through what she was shown, and her guides were happy to assist with answering the rest.

One question that had felt very important to her when she wrote it, seemed almost irrelevant from the expanded state awareness.  She said from this higher vantagepoint it appeared the overreaching life decision, that she was using the session to investigate, would change her in ways that meant she could not map out a trajectory around this issue from where she was currently.  It came through very clearly that she was not meant to worry about this piece right now; it did not need to weigh into the decision. When I asked her to check in if there if she was satisfied with this answer and ready to move on, she laughed and answered that she could feel it so clearly now, this was a truth that resonated deeply, but she suspected when she was back to her more limited human awareness where these truths wouldn’t be so obvious, she would really need to trust. I’m sure she will be glad to have the recording to go back to remind herself of all she saw then with such clarity.

When the session reached completion and I brought her out, there was a beautiful sense of peace about her. It was wonderful to see her leave with a newfound confidence that she knew her best path forward.

Christina Lavers (Dip Clinical Hypnotic Sciences), is a BQH practitioner and hypnotherapist. Located in Upper Orara, NSW, Australia, she works with people from all over the world. She is devoted to assisting people to find and connect with their own creative magical current that flows deep within. “As more of us learn to live our life in alignment with our hearts, the more love will be flowing around the planet. Our world urgently needs more love!”

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