That may be a good point regarding if a client come across repeatedly as controlling,or not respectful, that it may in fact be a hint as to them being very controlling and unable to let go enough to enter into a session successfully.Also, I try to pay attention to patterns I’m experiencing with others if they’re being repeated, how they make me feel and see if indeed it’s about a lesson I’m actually needing to learn or practicing a life skill for myself.I know I’ve called all sorts of uncomfortable things to myself so I’d get the practice I need to build a certain skill to help me become a better version of myself. Sometimes it’s just about standing up from myself. That’s been a big one for me.Along that line, I’m wondering if perhaps this is about you practicing putting up and maintaining what you feel are acceptable boundaries as to what treatment you’ll accept. Which it seems, you’re doing well at! 😉
