Light in the Shadows

Published Friday January 1, 2021 by [email protected]

Most of us learn to see ourselves as a single entity. However, the more we explore the more we are likely to discover that a better description might be a compilation of aspects with a greater or lesser degree of cohesion, organized around a sense of self. This perspective is not new; it has roots in the shamanic practice of soul retrieval, as well as in mainstream psychological approaches like Jungian archetypes and shadow work, and the more contemporary IFS (Internal Family Systems) approach. Viewing ourselves through a nuanced lens that allows for personal complexity can offer powerful insight into the inner workings of our internal worlds.

I have found that Beyond Quantum Healing (BQH) sessions support this perspective and can offer profound and creative opportunities to see, experience and heal at this level. A recent session may shed some light on what this can look like.

My client had been drawn to a BQH session because she felt stuck and could not understand why she was not able to meet people with whom she felt understood and valued. Consciously she held very optimistic beliefs about life, such as being exactly where she was meant to be and as long as she did the work change was possible. There was one conscious belief, however, that quietly caused her frustration and ongoing disappointment. She believed that by remaining in a state of positivity she would attract what she wanted. Yet, no matter how much she focused on the life she wanted to create, its manifestation remained elusive.

In her session, before communicating with her guides, the client found herself immersed in a deep feeling of sadness, loneliness, hopelessness and despair. She felt mired in the beliefs that nothing would ever change, and that she would never find a sense of belonging because she did not like humans and believed she was never meant to be one. She lamented the fact that she was here on the planet at this time. This shadowy part of her was so overwhelmed with grief and dejection that it had no desire to move forward.

This grim vantage point was alarming and confusing as consciously she did not identify with it, and yet in the session she experienced its undeniable reality.

The BQH session allowed her to understand why her conscious strategies were not working by allowing her to see the depth of the wounds and limitations she carried deep within. The beliefs held by this hidden part were completely out of alignment with her conscious self.

The session highlighted this childlike aspect that carried the burden of so much pain and misunderstanding. This part had been concealed in the shadows for so long that the client was completely oblivious to its existence and the effect it was having on her life. Understanding the deeply limiting beliefs hidden away in her psyche, such as ‘nothing will ever change’, ‘I am helpless’, and ‘I don’t belong here’ gave her a new level of clarity and insight into what was holding her back.

After the session she could see how this part had always been there, operating outside of conscious awareness.

Bringing this aspect of herself into the light of consciousness was the first step towards healing and integration. Later, in follow-up coaching sessions, we were able to work with this part, making room for her, ensuring she had the ongoing love and awareness that had for so long been denied.

When these forgotten, exiled parts feel seen and understood they begin to soften and relax. By welcoming them to the roundtable of self we create an internal environment in which these abandoned parts feel accepted and included rather than alone, neglected and rejected. By reconnecting to, and aligning with the self they begin to heal, and expand beyond their limited perspective. And when these parts feel accepted, they are inclined to want to contribute positively, sharing their gifts with the whole, rather than working quietly against it.

Christina Lavers is a BQH practitioner, located in Upper Orara, NSW, Australia. She is devoted to assisting people to find and connect with their own creative magical current that flows deep within. “As more of us learn to live our life in alignment with our hearts, the more love will be flowing around the planet. Our world urgently needs more love!”

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